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Attitude

i’ve recently noticed the impact someone’s attitude can have on their relationships with others and how not thinking before you speak can really hurt people’s feelings. As humans, we often put our foot in our mouth on average of twice a day because we are careless of how our opinions can be offensive to others.

Not until now has it occurred to me that i should be catious about what i say and really consider the concequiences before opening my mouth. At times like this i think to myself, i need to put aside my stubbornness and be the bigger person, yet i never seem to do so. I always just brush it off and give the general response of “well i don’t care what i said, it’s my opinion”.

Of course everyone is entitled to their own opinions but is there times when we’re better off keeping them to ourselves? as i’m getting older i’m really starting to consider how the people in my life are extremely important and without them i probably wouldn’t be who i am today. 

So i leave you with this. Everyones can have their own opinions but you need to think about how your opinion may be perceived before you voice it. Simply just think. Upsetting people gets you nowhere and you don’t gain anything from it. Keep those potentially hurtfull thoughts to yourself; as everyone is free to there own views therefore you don’t need to go preaching your thoughts to others. Because the truth is, they probably care just as less about your opinions and morals as you care about theirs. So admit your sorry and make amends when needed, because the time you have is to precious to waste over pitiful fallouts.

- kara

New Mac Shadows.

i recently received some new mac eye shadows the other day, Shroom and All That Glitters. Defiantly my spring shades for this season, blended with a light brown in the crease and a statement 1950s liner you simply can’t go wrong. My current everyday look so simple and effortless yet it holds that subtle hint of soffistication.